BB19 — The Houseguests Have Fidget Spinners!

Thank you Lisa! A fresh new page, and a fresh new start! 💘
I can’t remember who on the last post said she liked “Xmess!” I used that name, but I may have read it from another blogger! I think it fits! 😊
I don’t know what the outcome will be Wednesday night but as all of you who have watched BB from Season 1, know anything can happen! I have my fingers and my toes crossed that the UNEXPECTED will happen and Paul will not win the final comp. and Josh will take “Xmess” with him and win the whole thing! And, of course, our Cody will win AFP! Stranger things have happened in BB, right??? 😊. I think if we all (who do not want Paul to win) cross our fingers! We will see! Then we can all meet back here and celebrate. I’ll even bring the Champagne! And I don’t even drink! 😊
Have a good evening everyone! Love you all! 💘

Rumor has it that Cody is winning AFP on the polls!! Even some alumni are in his favor…Evil Dick, Janelle and Dani D…

Paul referred to himself as possibly being a Sociopath while talking to the cameras in the wave room one night during BBAD. (He may have also said Pathological…I just couldn’t listen to him for another second so I fast forwarded.) I was surprised that he would admit that and I decided to research just what exactly is a Sociopath. IMO, all of the following perfectly describe Paul. Sorry, it is long.

Sociopath vs Narcissist (personality disorders that overlap)

• Self-centered or callous “flavor”
• They will punish you via criticism, or covert aggression (Cody or
anybody who went against him)
• Can present themselves as charming, thoughtful and competent
• Extremely skilled at getting you to help them out or DO THEIR
BIDDING (Josh/Alex the attack dogs, pots n pans, throwing
comps etc. etc., just about everything)
• Having you take responsibility for their errors or insults.
(Insults= blood on THEIR hands, not his)
• Can make you feel extremely special when their attention is on
you. (Friendship bracelets)
• Good at convincing people that he knows best (To Kevin and
others: trust me, I’ll protect you)
• Pay a lot of attention to their appearance (beard grooming,
tattoos and body building)
• They have a 6th sense for spotting the right people to manipulate
(everybody but Cody and Jess)
• Good at sniffing out trusting, vulnerable people (dummy hgs)
• Emotionally hurtful, manipulative and vengeful. (Again, the
attack dogs and shunning)
• Pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration (he’s a vet
who knows everything)
• Grandiose sense of self-importance…exaggerates achievements,
expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate
achievements
• Preoccupied with fantasies of power, success, brilliance
• Believes he is “special” and can only be understood my similarly
special, high status people
• Requires excessive admiration
• Has a sense of entitlement
• Is interpersonally exploitative
• Lacks empathy (Josh’s emotions, crying)
• Is envious of others or believes others are envious of him/her
(Cody)
• Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

More men are narcissists and sociopaths. Narcissists become involved in “good guy” causes, not because they care but because it makes them look good. Sociopaths would only engage in “good works” if it gave them an opportunity to scam people or WORK A SYSTEM THEY’VE GAINED ENTRY IN. (Big Brother)

I like Cody and Jessica and I hope Cody wins!!! He gets my vote!

Big Brother Network interviews Exec Producer Allison Grodner every week following each eviction, I found this question very interesting since it was one that I had wondered about….

**”Big Brother Network: In the quick pace of the special eviction Alex didn’t have a chance to see her goodbye messages on stage. We were waiting to see if Josh dropped another bomb that night. What happens to the messages when they aren’t part of the show? Do Jurors get to see their video messages from any of the Houseguests later at the Jury House or backstage after the eviction show each week?

**Grodner: Since this was a surprise eviction, we did not have messages ahead of time because it would have clued them in. Once Alex was gone the houseguests recorded messages that went to the jury house. Josh was consistent in revealing his alliance to Alex just as he has to Jason, Matt, Raven and Kevin. It will be interesting to see how this information affects the jury and the jury roundtable discussion at the finale.”

So Alex DID get a message from Josh – and the rumor (leak) is that the jury house was VERY BITTER at the roundtable taping last Friday…. Hmmmm…..

I may be wrong, but it seems like a lot of strong personalities (not necessarily a good thing) are indulging their anger during the last few days of a season that has made almost everyone angry. I think a lot of that anger is misplaced anger. This should be a time of warm feelings and appreciation for everyone on this blog. I don’t like confrontation when it sinks from a mature level of debate to childish name-calling. I’ve been guilty of that myself and sorry, and a bit ashamed because after I took the bait, I didn’t even wait to be reeled in. No, I not only got hooked but then jumped into the boat of my own accord. Like certain hgs I can call out. They jumped in the Paul boat on just the promise of bait to come.

On this blog we should count on being respected even if we disagree with someone. In the BB house we don’t have to respect anyone so let’s confine our dismissives to the hgs.

I’m an award winning ($35 award, but it counts!) published (if letters to the editor count) author who made her living proofreading and correcting grammar and syntax in magazines for a local publishing house. I would never, ever point out or attempt to correct anyone on here. I hardly ever notice those errors. I’ve made mistakes and failed to go back and change them. Communication is what it’s all about not pristine writing. Now, I love to sit on my couch and laugh at the hgs for their bad grammar, but I laugh at them for other reasons too.

I consider everyone on here as a beloved friend,. Some more beloved that others. : ) An argument is never truly won.

two… lol… I have a couple of those child size t-shirts myself that I refuse to throw away. I can’t believe I was ever that small. One was from California Jam I or II, and the other is from Sound Productions, a Texas-based sound contracting company. In the 70s and 80s I worked for JBL, the speaker manufacturer, and was the lucky recipient of all kinds of professional perks in the music industry. My plan is to one day put them in a frame… what a procrastinator I am… It’s only been 40 years!

she’s had a migraine.

BBAD last night did anyone hear Christmas say to Paul we’re going to hate him tomorrow ? Meaning Josh. I did. I record BBAD and rewound it several times to make sure and thats what she said.

Its not fun on this blog..you all are as horrible and vicious and mean as this year’s BB 19. You have the nerve to call them out.
Look how you all talk to eachother and make snide remarks to be cruel.
People leave because they are hurt. That’s sad and you can’t even stop your bashing when the Admin asked you to.
That’s even sadder.

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Juju, junksies, I lived in Pasadena California when the big earthquake kit in the 1950s. I was working at our bakery on the corner of Lake in Colorado. My husband and I ran out the back door and we saw the pavement Ripley and look next-door and that whole front of the Bank of America building fell off. We got back into the door The oil from the donut fryer had splashed all over the place in the whole floor of our bakery was full of oil on the floor so he slipped and slid slid all over the place so we got it cleaned up two hours later.